Baby On Board-Part I

So, its time... Its time for her to depart Kuala Lumpur, the concrete grass and four walls, highrise, minimal galloping space and leaving her hometown depart to Borneo, the real nature for her. However, Baby-The pug had to went through so much of procedure and anxiety, as she is curious what is going on, but she awares that something is going on.... Every occasion, she has a different feeling, she doesnt feel comfortable, she doesnt feel safe... however, she just have to bare with it.. the separation anxiety.

Baby's expression when she was put on body check board. This is to enable her to obtain her export license as a healthy dog and free Rabies before entering KK custom.

8 pm, she started to know, she is gonna be sent away, she pee on my floor mattress and started to mis behave, however, she is still adorable, playing in and out with the pet cargo carrier.. thinking its a little home sweet home. Kate, whom is her foster mummy saying good bye to her.

11pm, she was sent to Pet Animal Hotel at Sepang, while obtaining custom declaration and also Mas Kargo documentation done, she was cage inside a deporting room, with nothing in it but another dog cage beside her... she started to show her sepration anxiety, she bite and put her crawl and start hawling for sadness.. Andrew saying good bye to her.

Baby, Biting the cage trying to get out from Pet Cargo Carrier she must be asking

" Why did you put me here? Why are you leaving me? What am i going to do in this small cage, and i want to pee pee how??"

Baby was left overnight in Pet Animal Hotel.. which doesnt cost her anything cause for Pet Cargo in Mas you need at least 6 hours before check in for departure, her flight the next morning 7 30 am. together with me on board.

The Things She Ate

Lately, Baby has big appetite. She used to be choosy and fussy in eating her meal.She never finish her daily dog food meal, which is a must for her before i feed any other snack.

Recently, she eats everything, be it edible or non edible, as long as she is reachable, she snap it and enjoy chewing with it, if she manage to chew it in her mouth , she tries her level best to swallow it..

She chews my loose powder sponge, all corners of my wooden side table, my socks, my shoes, even my dolls that i kept as souvenir.So, when all these chewing habit has turn my things torn, i just threw to her so she can concertrate enjoy chewing on one thing only... I use to give her 1 teddy bear to chew, as sometimes i think she likes to play with that little soft toy.. however as she grows, she needs bigger and bigger toy.. and look how pity are both my toys here:-

Both my teddy bears lost their eyes, and my red nose reindeer lost her nose... and if she manage to swollow any part of them, u will see the evidence every next morning... however, not everything can be swollow, some things just doesnt go through her little throat easily, Baby will vomited with the ease and regularity with hard core bulimic.Me and my housemate will hear her let out with a loud gaaaaaaaaack! at the corner of the house. By the time i rushed to her, you will see her looking at you at ease guilt with the toy in her mouth like this:-

Being inconsiderate of her, Baby next target will be a big challenge sitting on top of my bamboo basket at the corner of the house.. Everyday, she is waiting for the chance to drag this heavy bear down and try to bully him...look at her...

We in the house, can never have a foolish notion of letting her loitering around the house alone when we are not around.. She has to be confined... or... we confined ourselves just to avoid unnecassary damage again.

" Baby, if i were to count the damage you have cost.... it can only be replace by selling you away at Pasar Tamu ,Gaya Street KK! "

Book Worm Tag? Am I?

I received this tag On Books! i m not quite a book person but more on a hands on personality, however lets see what i can answer on these questions :-

Do you remember how you developed a love for reading?
Yes, i think i started from comics, story books with colouring function, i love them!

What are some books you read as a child?
When i was child, i was very much into chinese story books due to my moms requirement :so i read ：儿童乐园，老父子，小豆芽，名人传记，漫画卡通。。。。。。 etc, i really cant remember much now.

What is your favourite genre?
I love lifestyle magazines, self help and motivation, business and most of all cookeries :)

Do you have a favourite novel?
Not any in particular... but i m reading "Marley and Me" for now, by JOhn Grogan and i love it.

Where do you usually read?
In coffee house with cosy sofa, in my room, in the car while waiting for mostly my sister and uncle.

When do you usually read?
Anytime, my mag or books are always inside my big bag

Do you usually have more than one book you are reading at a time?
Yes.. i shuffle in between mag and novel..

Do you read nonfiction in a different way or place than you read fiction?
Yes, non fiction, i usually go straight to the chapter i m looking for.

Do you buy most of the books you read, or borrow them, or check them out of the library?
I like to buy as collection.

Do you keep most of the books you buy?
Mostly yes.

If you have children, what are some of the favorite books you have shared with them? Were they some of the same ones you read as a child?
I am not quite sure, but i like story telling about pinochio, mermaid, and some famous legendary stories. Should be different from my material when i m young.

Do you keep a TBR (to be read) list?
no I don't

What’s next?
I m not sure, i dont have a habit for planning whats the next to be read.I think because i dont have the habit of reading at all time. I m more a hands on person.

Who are your favourite authors?
oh.. this is tough.. I dont have in specific... I need to find out now

Wedding Reflects

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This month is a real good month,It has been wedding functions one after another.Despite the busy schedule and losing touch of friends and relatives.. I am always excited when it comes to wedding. Today i attended an old friend wedding ceremony, and it remind me of my Emcee day during my cousin's wedding last December, Wedding in West Malaysia is some what similar in Sabah.. common Yam seng practise and round table seperated between bride and grooms family, and friends. The only different is... Sabahn wedding are mostly conducted in malay or english... this is because we are way to mix, with Kadazan, Bajau, dusun, and even chinese looking whom doesnt understand chinese... however ( a slide in between of Hakka, hokkien, and also kadus language makes the evironment chill)...


This was my emcee experience during my cousin wedding, i posted this blog in friendster last year .. it was sweet and warmth , as all my relative, came down from tenghilan, tamparuli, topokon, and evern tuaran, penampang, and Papar...some of them still came with sarung, or curut ( which is a tabocca kind ). I miss this moment :-

The Mix Culture Wedding ( posted 17 dec 07)

Today- 15 Dec 2007, Is a very special day for my cousin Set Fui. She will be getting married to her long time boy friend, Janeve which is A Dusun from Kota Belud. ( Dusun is one of the native clan of Sabah). Meanwhile, being the master of ceremony for this special mix culture wedding celebration, i am truly happy to celebrate this joy with this newly wed couple.

Morning Schedule was pretty tight as we have a Chinese Wedding Culture Where Janeve came at about 8:35am to pick up Set Fui and being tortured by some dramatic challenge which took almost 1 hour. He was force to sing in Mandarin, to eat chili, bitter gourd, and even lime which shows that he is willing to go through every stage of life with Set Fui. After winning the battle, we had Tea Ceremony which took us 1 hour as we have a very big family. Our appointment with pastor for the sacred solemnize was at 10am. So once the tea ceremony finished, we rushed immediately to the church and finally the couple managed to complete the solemnization and end the morning chapter of the wedding.




Now here comes the lime light of the wedding, The “Aramity” dinner. This is the first time I conducted a ceremony for a wedding. Hence, a little nervous. however, at least I have a male emcee accompanying me, so It wasn’t too bad after all. The ceremony was started by a special entry of the newly wed with a Sword Bearer marching in and a serious momentum with respect and silent….pretty special.

Overall the ceremony flow is pretty smooth, especially after a few drinks from the crowd, they have more feedback and more attentive to the couple, we have a great time emceeing while watching the couple enjoyed being asked question and the crowd being entertertained by us.


The night end with a karaoke session and every one seems enjoying them selves while the bride was actually “drunk” and the groom has to stand alone to thanks goodbye everyone.
As for me, another satisfactory of achievement done and I hope I can have a chance to develop more exposure in emceeing again.

I ve got a BFF Gold Card!

Thanks Sandra for rewarding me this card.. Its an honour and i immediately frame it up in my blog here... Again this is my first time accepting a reward,hmmm.... thank you thank you... i love u ... LOL

Rules of the reward target :

1. Only 5 people are allowed to receive this award.
2. 4 of them are followers of your blog.
3. One has to be new to your blog and live in another part of the world.
4. You must link back to whoever gave you the award

So.. My BFF GOld Card Award goes to......

1.Sindut 2. Layne 3. Priscilla 4.Alexandro 5.Kate

Love Affair

The Love affair ~A super hyper pug breed dog like BABY had me screaming on all fours in our entired residence. I laugh out loud looking at her pictures because its was the caption of her trying to figure out how to destroy, escape and sometimes deep thought ( wonder what her little head thinking about ). She is Hilarious.. As they said" No Pain, No gain"What i gain is -Baby..A hall of fame puppy if there ever was one.

"BABY- u spark up my life"

For the first time- I AM TAGGED

1. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE?
Not really,but my chinese name do have a meaning after the Quenn Dynasty of Song ( Hsiaoyin-Small Little Clever) konon ...

2. WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU CRIED?
Ah~ just last 2 days, blogging for my last post "Letter to Brother Kent"

3. DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING?
I have to like it no matter what, i am a translator , so i need to do a lot of writting, i better be like it man..

4. What is your favorite lunch meat?
Fish & chicken... Beef Ball, Tuna... also welcome

5. DO YOU HAVE KIDS?
I wish i have one by now, but no i dont have .. ( i have a puppy though :P)

6. IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU?
Of course, I am too good to be true, and good to be bullied at times...

7. DO YOU USE SARCASM A LOT?
Same as Sandra-Depends on the situation.

8. DO YOU STILL HAVE YOUR TONSILS?
Yes.

9. WOULD YOU BUNGEE JUMP?
Yes, if i have a chance.

10. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE CEREAL?
Banana Cereal "Post Brand"

11. DO YOU UNTIE YOUR SHOES WHEN YOU TAKE THEM OFF?
No i dont...

12. DO YOU THINK YOU ARE STRONG?
I think i am not, but i am building it now...

13. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE ICE CREAM?
My favorite is Youghurt Forest Berries @ Vedablu

14. WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU NOTICE ABOUT PEOPLE?
The Small little movement, and communication style

15. RED OR PINK?
Pinky please

16. WHAT IS THE LEAST FAVORITE THING YOU LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF?
My nose.. Real round like red nose reindeer

17. WHO DO YOU MISS THE MOST?
I think fo now i miss my brother... but when he is around i alwas fight with him...

18. DO YOU WANT EVERYONE TO SEND THIS BACK TO YOU?
Yes.

19. WHAT COLOR PANTS AND SHOES ARE YOU WEARING?
Grey and no shoes

20. WHAT WAS THE LAST THING YOU ATE?
Ikan Basung with Thai dried Chilli.... cook by my hosuemate

21. WHAT ARE YOU LISTENING TO RIGHT NOW?
None
22. IF YOU WERE A CRAYON, WHAT COLOR WOULD YOU BE?
Purple

23. FAVORITE SMELLS?
Dewberry from Bodyshop

24. WHO WAS THE LAST PERSON YOU TALKED TO ON THE PHONE?
My mom

25. DO YOU LIKE THE PERSON WHO SENT THIS TO YOU?
Yes, she is a cool mummy!

26. FAVORITE SPORTS TO WATCH?
Men run ( 100,200m )

27. HAIR COLOR?
Bergundy

28. EYE COLOR?
Dark brown

29. DO YOU WEAR CONTACTS?
Yes, very much in need of them

30. FAVORITE FOOD?
Italian Food ( especially Salami ), Thai Food ( especially the spicy ones) and Desserts!

31. SCARY MOVIES OR HAPPY ENDINGS?
Happy Ending please...

32. LAST MOVIE YOU WATCHED?
Sex & The City

33. WHAT COLOR SHIRT ARE YOU WEARING?
Grey Spaghetti Stripe

34. SUMMER OR WINTER?
Summer!

35. HUGS OR KISSES?
Hugs will do

36. FAVORITE DESSERT?
Always Tiramisu / Choco Mousse

37. MOST LIKELY TO RESPOND?
All

38. LEAST LIKELY TO RESPOND?
None

39. WHAT BOO K ARE YOU READING NOW?
Just bought from Kinokuniya "All About Bangkok" & " Marley & Me" by John Grogan

40. WHAT IS ON YOUR MOUSE PAD?
Nothing

41. WHAT DID YOU WATCH ON T.V. LAST NIGHT?
I got No TV, i only watch TV when there is special occasions like Olympic...

42. FAVORITE SOUND?
Sound of Waterfall

43. ROLLING STONES OR BEATLES?
Echo beatles!

44. WHAT IS THE FURTHEST YOU HAVE BEEN FROM HOME?
Japan.. for student culture exchange.. I hope i can go further

45. DO YOU HAVE A SPECIAL TALENT?
Does Pen twisting count? I can do finger summersword and also twist 360degree.. sampai my teacher threw chalk at me.


46. WHERE WERE YOU BORN?
Queen Elizabeth... KK

47. WHOSE ANSWERS ARE YOU LOOKING FORWARD TO GETTING BACK?
Everyone who reads my blog

Letter To Brother Kent

Dear Kent,

I know it has been a tough month for you. Not because you are going to be far away from mom and dad. But because you had been pint pointed by everyone, for the fact that you have to admit the incompetence of your performance. Your behavior, attitude and action has present yourself as a matured yet tempermanner young man. Your dream and knowledge has present yourself as a vision and futuristic personality.

However, your "dare to Believe" has failed to surcum all your dreams. You are reluctant to step out from being protect, you are reluctant to move on because of you past performance, and you are dying to prove and to prove .... that you "CAN" to us. Kent, being the youngest and the only son, especially in a conventional family like ours, you are pressured to perform the best, and bring the scroll back for mom and dad. You are also being the most pampered and protected, as you are the shining star for them.

With all my heart, i just want to tell you, you existence has gave us joy and challenge, and your behavior has inherit the good of Limng.... Study as smart as you can, work as smart as you can, also explore as much as you can.

The best experience and knowledge is not only within what they have invest, but the real education is the "Surviving Skill" and you Emotional Intelligent to the ppl around the world. Leave you footprint everywhere you can, leave you memories everywhere you want; but always look back at your backyard... never forget your root and culture... never forget your family and ( auntie friends) ... most of all, never forget , those who give you hard time in Malaysia here.... Because once you remember them, you know at least they treat you better ( or worst) ... Spread your wing ...... and flip across the globe..... dive into deep sea, and find the truth...When you fall, stand up and walk straight.....

Never give up, Dare to Fail... Bon Voyage.... Brother Kent - left to switzerland at 3 35 am, 4th september 2008.

Love, Che Melissa

51st years of independence

My thought :life begins at 50 hence this is the time to change. You will enjoy the glorious of being politically clean, clear and united multiracial "rakyat malaysia".revolution is coming to u. Good morning My beloved malaysia. Post at : 6 30am. Royal Domain condo, penthouse view.

Its friday baby!

I was getting ready to go for Merdeka Eve party and Baby the Pug look so sad. Saperation anxiety.

Return to the North Borneo

Shy to say... i am born bread from the west coast of Sabah ( North Of Borneo ) and yet, i did not take time to discover and appreciate how great the nature and wildlife of my own backyard is. well, even majority of sabahan doesnt exactly appreciate their gift of nature, knowing that tuorist came from the other side of the globe just to visit our "land below the wind"

This trip down to Sabah, beside having few important meetings, i have also took the challenge to join " Paddle or Die" motion act---The white water rafting ( Grade III & IV). Taking the challenge with me was Bil- my x-neighbour back in Bangsar Permai. This is a real adrenaline triggered ventures which Bil & i promised to each other that if i jump; he jump too, we made vows and promised, especially Bil, knowing he is going to get married next year, was worried like hell... (actually me too, may be i am getting old, activities like this sometimes freak me out..LOL)


Well, The journey will first take 1-½ hours overland to Beaufort town. From thereupon, we took a 45 min train rides tracks along the Padas River that gives glimpses of the thrills and excitement to come. all paraphenalia are left in the bus, we are left with nothing in hand, we ride through the oldest train in Borneo which passes through the once renowned headhunters' tribe (Murut).

Before the paddle, we were briefed by the Guide leader, who is a Bajau mix phillipine.His sense of humor and security gave everone a very clear picture on paddle safety, emergency self rescue, and the importance of guides command.

Now, after a half day tuor, we finally hook on the bumble bee boat, hang on to our paddle ( not me because i was sitting in the front row middle rank, which function as a safety belt and also sound provider (scream & shout ) .. hahaha )


These rapid carries amusing names such as Merry-Go-Round Rapid, Break Point Rapid, Scooby Doo Rapid, Cobra Rapid, Curve Rapid, Lambada Rapid and Head Hunter Rapid. Each rapid will give you the feel of the motion as what the name means. Splashhh~Splash~ Splash, we paddle, we fall and we drank so much of water...... however the teamwork, the scream of worries has turn out to be fun and joyess. .. In between time i still can chat with Bil, and ask his wish before he die, even the guide was COOL and CALM enough to share his experience with us.. haaa! its sooo sooo much fun and this really splash away my stress, sorrows and worries..


As usual, after paddling, the journey going back to KK was the most tiring and all of us slept like baby...During my journey back, i asked Bil, how does he feel..... he smile and answered :

" I will definitely come again for the next challenge!"

This lady Dancer I Met.....

I came across a forwarded mail on this spinning lady.. Can you see she is spinning clockwise or anti clockwise? Every movement of your brain, affects her spinning direction... i salute the person who create this animation.. its all about cognitive science test a the functionality of your left and right brain.

So here is the explaination :-
If you see her moving clockwise, then you’re using the creative side of your brain, that is the Right. Whereas, if you see her move anti-clockwise, then you’re using the logical part of your brain, that is the Left. Try look up again, see if she is still turning the same way...

I spent the whole nite figuring out how great this animation is....

May be you should use this to your kids, lets see which halve of their brain are more active.. are they more on creative or logic and anlytical person.

I think i am still more on a creative person... I m still not sure... but i think generally every one see it turning both side, as and whenever our brain is functioning according to situation around us...

Well, its time to sleep, so it should turn left i suppose...

Buona Notte!

She is In love :)

Today is the 5th week of Baby's training, This little monster seems getting use to her training ground and started to familarize with her class mates and even Seniors...




So, before the class start, Baby been socializing around with other dogs and surprisingly she is behaving so good girl without even barking but just sniffing and wagging her tails to her friends.

"Hey, let me see if you are a hunk or a pretty"

So, Pacco ( another pug came along with his master and found out Baby has got a same face as him) so he started to check out Baby and started to sniff her all over... then, baby started to flirt with him and they chased after each other round the whole field... it was a laugh and funny scene to everyone.

"They were playing hunting game and ran throughout the whole field"

Can you see Pacco in this picture?? He is so macho and big :)

"Then.... they kissed~~~~"

I hope Baby can find her true love, she will learn along the journey .... she is just an adorable,cute, funny and sometimes "cunning" baby.

Malaysia -an upcoming Halal Hub for Muslim Countries

My blog has been quiet for quite a while... been b

usy searching for the right Halal certification channel in order to get things right from start...

However.... as we know, its not easy to a non-muslim to determine whats right or wrong especially in sensitive industry i.e: food and cosmetics.

In short, the latest update on Halal Certification Logo usage is authorize and appointed to a new Cooperation Named Halal Development Corperation (HDC), This corporation is wholly a separate entity with Jakim ( Jabatan Kemajuan Islam Malaysia ) ... however all authority and development, as well as enforcement has totally granted to HDC. further details, you can check on the website http://www.hdc.com.my/

For whatever reason i attended this course, it is definitely due to the market driven and the demand our muslim consumers. a 3 days course gave an understanding of what Syariah Law is all about, hence from my understanding, importing ingredient or any material from a muslim country doesnt mean that you are totally safe and approved by Malaysia Halal certification.



There are 4 School of Thought : Hanafi,Hanbali,Maliki and Shafie. So, in choosing your raw material, you have to understand the history of the country of Origin.However, i still really dont understand how to define something is HARAM or HALAL....



For example: TAPAI- is consider halal to JAKIM ( but it is intoxicating..! )

Ketam Batu (Ketam Paya) is haram (but a deep sea Crab is Halal)

Cuka ( Vinegar ) is Halal ( but the ingredient of Vinegar is made of fermentation alcohol)

Well, this is just a part of the module.. how bout GMP( genetically Modified Product ?) like Tomato or Corn breed which was injected on animal base by fastening , enhance their growth.


Scientifically proven : Emulsifier , Gelatin and even Additive majority are consist of non-halal animal base ingredient... so i think in order to venture into HALAL industry, it is definitely a challenge for us.





Among my collegues whom attended the course are from Unilever ( cosmetics and Food), Etikadiaries ( condensed milk), LSG ( formerly Airline Mas caterer) and TITON ( an MNC whon produce pp chemical for packaging industries)




I know this is somehow insignificant to non-muslim consumers, however looking at the percentage of Halal consumers in Malaysia and even expand to ASEAN countries, in is no doubt at least 60% market share has driven me to attend this course.



For those whom are not familiar with the Malaysia HALAL issue, above mention are the giz of HALAL requirement for food industry. It might bore you though, but i believe majority of the Muslims in malaysia are still unaware of Syariah Law policy and procedure MS1500:2004.

I learnt Programming

13 July 08, today is second weekend and its another exciting day for Baby.. its her second session of trainning.Most of Baby classmate arrived today but 2 of them absent, may be due the master saturday nite fever the day before.

"Do you think Jessica Alba Train her Pug?"

Today learning module:

1) sit your dog in a correct way- always say"sit" and adjust your dog to sit correctly at you left.Always use a standard command to your dog "sit" for the position of sitting correctly on ur left.

2) "heel" means forward while tapping ur left tigh and proceed with left leg first while walking along with your dog. so, start with left leg and finish with left leg..

3) "About turn" is the turning position while walking with your dog. always start ur turning with left foot as ur dog is always alert and imitating ur direction with his closest source.. left foot.

4) caling your dog to "come", praise and reward. --this is easy to Baby, anyone who calls her she will wag her tail and forwad to you. However, this is another training module for today.

5) last but not least, the hardest one which is to command your dog "down".. most dog dont understand what their master want so what we have to do is to assist them by pishing their whole body down to the floor and then when they soften down, and on the floor, reward them.

Here are some pictures on Baby's senior, most of them are at agility and novice level.. Baby is newbies.. she will need to pratice harder to cope up with them.
Now i know, human body system can be programme according to our lifestyle, now even dog can be programmed... :)

A dog down position is veyr important as it is a way to calm your dog in order not to attack or disturb others.

BABY first day to school!

Fig 1: Training session of Novice
Fig 2: Mr Khoo ( Founder) briefing the Novice dogs.

Sunday morning, as usual she woke up early and waited for me outside my bedroom. with her folded face and long bootilicious body, she yawn and wack her tail once i open my door. Its Sunday! and its your first School day!

Baby will have her first " puppy Obedience training" today. I am more excited ever as finally i found a master to potty train her as well as the correct way to tame this little monster.

So, off we go to Ampang Jaya and once we reach the training ground... Oh dear, its a heavan for all dogs! its the place for them to hang out, make friends, socialize and even share food! i couldnt be more excited then ever.. even Baby, being an Apartment Dog, she is totally a" Jakun" and start barking to the BIG BROTHER but at the same time her butt still lying down on me, trying to tell the others that, " HEY! MY MAMA IS HERE, DONT U C"... all other dog are so tame, and obedience... they just look at BABY.... and turn over as .. BABY is totally not a threat to them at all.. HAHAHA

I couldnt take much pictures as they are too many dogs and i was just to engross with how obedient is the novice, and senior dogs are...

However, for the first day training, this is what i learn:-

1) the best time to train your puppy is when there are 3 months old, just right after they are away from their mummy.

2) Dog doesnt understand any language, beside their own name.. so dont waste time scoldng, yelling or screaming to your dog... sign language or gesture or signal is the best to communciate with ur dog. ( then add on with your intonnation of your voice)

3)Always use a choke chain so ur dog knows that u meant business with she/he, some dogs are too smart to handle and they turn cunning to trick you at times. ( like BABY)

4) Walk with your dog on your left always, side by side... not in front or behind... always walk side by side with your dog. ( especially during training )

5) always prepare treats in your pouch.. so you are ready for any accident ( poo) or treats for your dog.

After a 2 hours environment stroll, and 1 hour of real trainning, BABY totally exhausted , she slept the whole day till night, without even know we left her home alone for that night.

Good Bye my friend

Dear Akiko,

Perhaps this is just a mail to express my anxiousness on you leaving the country. The anxious is not meant for you, its the situation that driving you away from Malaysia and back to your hometown, Japan.

I remember the good old days with you, the KATAKANA & KATAKANJI tuition that i was so much into, the Yoga session with our "beloved" Samantha, and even the great night out Bulldog, Karaoke, and movie at my house "Damansara Perdana" , i even remember the BOn Odori in Shah Alam, all these... all these activities, has made colours rainbow in my life.

I know you have found "LOVE"... and i can see it in your eyes, the past few days coffee was strong enough to let me analyze you. You are half Malaysia.. you still need the wax and threading, you still need the malay "kah" and "bah" in the end of you toungue... You still a down to earth , sweet and strong woman inside you.

Kana is lucky to have you, i sincerely wish both of you will ring the wedding bell as soon as possible.. so i get to chance to visit you in Japan again.

Akiko, you and Elaine has been a wonderful sisters for me. Now we have reach the corss road for the better of our life. I wish you all the best, all the hapiness and most of all, good health at all time.

Sincerely Yours,

Melissa

Baby! you drive me nuts!

Pug can sleep average 14 hours a day... ( and they snore louder then a man)

Its about my friend's little pug "Baby" again... , I have been baby sitting Baby for the past one week. Some how or rather, this little monster has really tested my patient..we have a total love hate relationship... but yet, through the process of tolerating her as a "puppy", i try my level best to blen into her world.

Baby and me is very much in love, she is very attach to me, she always has her eyes on me wherever i go in the house, she likes to feel me, by having at least a touch of my skin on her.. when i cook, she sleep on my feet; when i walk, she followed behind; when i m blogging, she sleeps in between my tigh.. and when i sleep in my room, she sleeps outside my door... its like, we can never be separated..

I m in the process of Potty training her...every morning i wake up at 5am just to acompany her to loo, then 7 30 am wake up again for her poo.. Baby is my first dog training process, i m so engross in her process of development, however, day by day she dissapointed me... every morning i wake up with a new hope that she can break the record for automatically poo & loo herself at the potty spot. I m still trying, and still monitoring her, i know this is hard as i m pretty occupied with my work in factory... now i know, its not easy to be a mom.. this is just a puppy, what more a human...

Baby has been the greatest joy for me now, she is always welcoming me with her cute little curly whipping tail, and always look at me as if she understand how i feel inside me. I know she is just a puppy, and i know she is taking a lot of my time.. but she is wonderful.. she gave me the sence of belonging and she gave me the sence of love and need to each other..

She loves going out with me, and laying on my pillow.

Baby is more then a puppy to me, she has the closest sence of humanity. She tries very hard to indentify my feeling sometimes, anger, happy, praise, cry and even potty time. She seldom bark, but she uses a crying tone to communicate her needs and wants.. which i think is the best tectic to win anyones heart..

Now, her fown fur is getting smoother... she walks like a celebrity anywhere she goes and most of all, before her Papa comes back, i want her to learn the manner of potty right place. I feel the sence of achievement...i realize, everything needs effort and time.. and most of all, LOVE... that drives all impossible to reality.

Baby~ lets make this happended with me.. you are more then a puppy!

Lower Back

I stopped yoga lately just because of the lower back pain that has been long for a month. It started last month due to arrival equipment to our factory. I was too excited on the arrival of the equipment and was trying to help out to arrange for the opening of the wood pallet. Argghh! this sprain just came without me realizing and this back injuries has drag me for a month or so...

Well, i know this is no joke as i feel the pain after a long hour sitting in front of my laptop, or walking with my heels and even sometimes bending down to pick up things. it pains at the certain angle and even more painful when the weather is cold or rainy days. It doesnt sound like arthritis is it??

No way, i need to get this treated as i m still young for so many activities ( you bet! ) so i went to a Thai massage to see if it does cure, however, they were just temporary relief for me :(... I know the worst thing i should do is to get my spinal scanned however, i m still putting hope on certain therapy methodology that can cure my lower back pain.

Hence, i bought a sitting spring, which actually support my back bone while sitting in fron of the laptop. Stop wearing all my high heels, and start shopping for flat, ballet shoes that walk me around for 3 -4 hours, and sleep with a hard pillow support at my back. ( i have been doing this for a week coming to 2) and i can feel it slowly heals back.

So i started back my yoga today and i found a few clips at you tube that could really help our lower back pain exercise. Cat cow, open peagoen post are all the good post for lower back and hip. Check this video clip out for a short posture guide.

I will try this posture every alternate day.. i hope it can heal my back pain. This feeling is not good and i lose my confidence at times. :(

Reminder and precaution in protecting your back !

- When lifting heavy items, bend your knees, not your back. Do not lunge OR jerk when lifting a load.

- Stretch and move every now and again when sitting for extended periods of time. Use a small pillow for back support.

- Sleep on your side with your legs drawn up slightly toward your chest. Do not sleep on your stomach.

-Weight Control at all time !

Baby ! I Miss You...

I still remember, the last dog i had at home in Sabah was called Blacky ( which was 10 years back when i was in Tawau) Mamamia... Blacky die and my family moved to KK, eversince i dont have a pet attached.

Lately, a friend of mine brought his dog little pug name Baby to me... from the first day we met, i fell in love with her and my heart melt with the adorable and comic action. When she sees some one new, she like to smell, hike on you and, and lick you all over.. when she is happy, she express her excitement with full of energy, she swing her tiny tail which goes along with her butt and and her big round eyes look at you as if she is trying to convey a message to you.

She loves playing "fighting game" and she loves to squeeze in between tiny warm place of your body.. for example, in between your hip , in between you breast or in between you arm... she is smart in looking for good location to has her self set free... Look at this picture of her, it looks like~ " OH~ WHO CARES HOW I SLEEP~

She is just too comfy on the Sofa!

She sleeps almost 14 hours a day, but when she woke up she is so hyper that she wants to play so much.. she likes to play fight and chasing.. then she bark as if she is very fierce and strong ( which she is not) she cant even go down a staircase and walk through a steel tunnel. She is just a baby.. that need extra attention.

Sometimes, she look at you with her big round eyes like these

" What the f xxx do you want ??! "

The fold and features on her face make her look fierce but actually she is not... she is just curious on anything she see... even she tried drinking cola and burb so loud like a man.. OMG.. she is just so lovable.

Sometimes, I let her do whatever she wants on me.. this is what she did :-

She Sniffs you all over, She bites you all over and then she squeeze in between anywhere of your body.

Everyday i must meet her at the park... we must spend sometime communicating and play around... she is irreplaceable.

Baby... i miss you !

She is no more a virgin~

Its been a while my blog was left stagnant... with the tight schedule and work piling up for factory set up... i was unable to keep my journal updated.. however, today i would love to have my usual Nescafe Gold, sit on my wooden teak wood table, and drop a few words for the day.

Last two night, i have been making myself busy by going out with my housemates Kate & Ice. Ice is the niece of Kate who just came from Thailand. They are both native of Thai so , Kate has been staying with me for quite a while, we some what have this similarity in sharing about our community culture, living lifestyle, and opinion about life.

Since Ice never been to any of the pub, disco and club, we decided to bring her out and gave her a good grooming for the night. So, Off we go on Friday Night Fever!

I can see from Ice how nervous, excited and engross she was with the preparation of our fast make up and hairdo. She herself was lost with the newly expose make up kit and paraphenalia. However, nature of girls... Make up is like the hardware for the man... Kate and I put on a list of dress for her, then i tried my very best to put on her make up (which i almost forgot what i ve learnt in AIS, and gave her hair a curl for the night )so, she started to check out mirrors .... she is gorgeous, naive little girl.

Since this is the first time we went to club together, i am not sure how these girls can handle themselves, so i told myself to be sorber at all times, and watchful on my belongings while enjoying the dance. We hope into Rum Jungle and the club was pretty empty... however, we re between a tables of party people with their girlfriends. Unbelievable, the last person i expect to get drunk... Kate... she had so much fun... touching the guy next table to us , and waving to everyone " good Bye, Good life and Have Fun! " ... Ice was alright but its an eye opener to her... this is her first time and she was looking stunned and shock at any point of time.

We dance whole night long, releasing our stress, boredem and fat in our body and soul...

I drove home in a tipsy mode, trying to keep myself sorber and avoid police checking at all time... Lucky i skipped the Check point at Jln P Ramlee.. Its a great night ever since i dance the last time ( which i cant remember when ) .... Dancing... is still a part of my life...

This month Issue~ Emotional Intelligence

Time past so fast, another month gone with the wind.... its the first quarter of the year.. what have i achieved, and what have i accomplished...? sometimes i just wonder... Did i made the right move to come back to KL... however, time will tell and spizzica outcome will tell the truth...

This month was a crucial and hollow month, i had plenty of arguments especially with the person i love, things just doesnt go along with my expectation, did i expect too much from him ? or he is just too emotional insensitive... I lost my temper few times, throw my tantrum like a toddler, and even cried like a baby... some how or rather, i made him feel painful but still... he is wondering why...

i think, Emotional Intelligence is really running out in most of the guys nowadays ( especially , the malaysian guys.....) That makes most of the woman feel like a CD repeating as everything needs to be told again and again and yet it is ignored by the him.Sometimes, after being with you for more then a year, they started to cruise on the flat emotion that where there is no need to communicate or even think he needs to improve his love life/career/ fitness level etc. So when woman try to puor their heart out trying to be nice and expect to be loved in return they turn out to be a died lizard lying on the road.

EI- generally is an important radar that use to read people,connect quickly and asses whats really going on/ whats needed. In specific explanation, EI is all about understand why we feel and behave the way we do so that we can recognize and respond to the feelings when they arise. EI is use to develop greater self awareness and self control in our relationships with others.

Its is really hard to find a man who is high in their Emotional Intelligence, when they can acknowledge, notice and adress your feelings promptly, they will show their empathy, love and support and even intuit what they can do to have a strong , intimate and meaningful relationship in all walks of life with you.

I somehow think... its way too far to find a man who is emotionaly sensitive enough, unless the are season and experience man ( you know what i mean ;) ) or they are just temporary excited to be fetish in love...

Its late , i m going to rest now... nice dinner with my thai housemate whom is leaving soon back to Bangkok.

Juggling between the East & West~

Being a village girl and away from home, it might be pretty cool for a moment but feeling lost, like an " Ikan Bilis" in this metropolitan city.KL~

Its been 3 months i am away from home, everything which needs to be settle seems pretty done, especially relocating of new shelter, Sending Black Horse, and getting all necessity done in time. ( Thanks to my dear boss who has been very helpful and supportive all through the way); however being premanantly in this city, no one is allow to stop in order to make ends meet and make a living in KL.

Sometimes, i feel the tranquility in myself... as if there is "nothing" i have here, but true friends. I miss every bits of KK, be it the dirty highway that caused black horse full with mud, the nag from my mom for coming home late, the night insects that always attack my room, the port hole of KK highway, the boring night life that every where you go, you meet the same circulation of familiar faces. ... still... i miss KK.. especially the care free people that i met, the real "pribumi" who never want to leave their mother land. http://www.mysabah.com.my/ or http://www.kadusmusic.com.my/ or you can even check this website out on how much welcoming sabah is for tuorist all over the world http://www.littleitaly-kk.com/

However, i was told this is a process of charactor building~ yes CHARACTOR BUILDING it seems... being away doesnt mean u forget your root, or your origins, but just building a stronger personalities by going through all the obstacle or so called "shitty experience" here.....so, in short~ this is what i get.....

"KK~ Simplicity, Carefree, unique, & Exotic to

KL~ Luxurious, Chic, Cosmopolitan & Stylish" ....konon lah~

Well, after all ... i just got to be happy ... move on and always asked my self "Now I was without a man my time was just for me. I was going to live my own Sex and the City existence – but would I really find that my new life matched the series? "

New words of the day " Pheromone"

I learn a new word from a good friend of mine today... he smells my pheromone... man!
In google search PHEROMONE means

" a chemical that triggers a natural behavioral response in another member of the same species. There are alarm pheromones, food trail pheromones, sex pheromones, and many others that affect behavior or physiology. Their use among insects has been particularly well documented, although many vertebrates and plants also communicate using pheromones"

So in human socialogy, pheromone usually used in man's parfume in order to attract female to arouse their sexual desire... its an ingrediant that used by most leading parfume company for the purpose of attracting the opposite sex.... See, now you know, buying parfume is not just only making you smells good, it also makes your courting success! Haha~

Little treat after a Sad Day~

Everything was so furstratung today, internet at home was down, nothing can be done at home after a tiry day of arguing with him..being fly kite by friend who suppose to meet up since last week... since BH is here, i thought of bringing him for a wash near by My house.

Instead of turning to car wash, i turn to Hair Wash! ha.... gave myself a little treat so i wont be so worn out by sadness, anger and all dissapointment that i have to accept. So here i go Face Affair~

Because i was so pissed, so i just told the stylist do anything he want with my hair, so he said 3 important things in a womans hair... 1 ) shine ( which i dont have) ,2) no split end ( which i have )3) No dandruff ( and i have it too! ) .. so i decided to request 3 things that instantly make me happy. So he did something which eventually turn out quite satisfying.. 1 ) Curl ( since my hair is dry ) 2) cut the fringe shorter ( so i look more shinny and fresh ) 3) wave ( so i dont look so dull)

and all in all with a good dandruff treatment only cost me RM 49.90... Boleh tahan!

Its so easy to make a woman impulse happy...However, the next day, my hair went straight back, too heavy, too much it seems ... hai~

Good Day Ahead !

Am having my favorite Nescafe Gold while waiting for the time to leave from home to start my day. Still waiting for his sms geetings but yet to hear anything since last nite *grin*

I know i shouldnt be into this but my, IQ( intelligent Quotient) doesnt work well without EQ( Emotional Quotient), emotion play a very strong roll in my daily progessive...

ok my morning coffee is finish, i have to go now. good day melis~

The Sunday Brew~

Today, beside being lazy as usual, i stayed at home reflecting back the week to do list...things are moving pretty fast, factory is targeting to be done by month end and hopefully everyone can start testing our pizza the soonest.


However, looking back, deep down inside my heart, emotional mood are still fumbling, i know i have to go through this, for the better of both of us. I know he can be better without me, and i know he deserve some one better. However, i will always remember the inforgetable and precious moment, as well as the long distance realtionship that we have gone through together.


I came across this while reading one of a celebrity (sabahan's blog, btw i always like to check out sabahan celebrity cause i am very proud of them, for not forgeting their root but flying far and making us proud ), See~ Sabahan are always full of emotion :) :-

It's so easy to move ahead and go on with life but we both know we don't want to.
It's so easy not to look back but we know in retrospect, what we have had gone through was precious and irreplaceable.
It's so easy to say, goodbye but deep down inside it's not what we really meant to say.
It's so easy to say, forget it ever happened but we know the feeling is too entrenched to be erased off our minds and hearts.
It's so easy to say, you have yours and I have mine, we will live separate lives.
It's so easy to say, I'll give this up for your happiness and for mine but it's not true.
It's so easy to say, time will help us forget about each other but you know it will not happen unless amnesia hits us.
It's so easy to say, I will back off and cut off those correspondence but we know that we are too connected and can't live without it.
God, please grant him the best of all and let him be happy for the life he deserved!

The weather seems agreeing to my feeling today, thunder strike and lightning every now and then, following with down pour of raining cat and dogs, they emphatize my feeling i suppose...

10 things i hate about you~

I dedicate this simple poem to a best friend of mine, whom i really loved and anxious about once upon a time, he created emotions in me, and his kisses has played apart in my life :~

" I Hate when you talk to me, without thinking how sensitive a woman is

I hate when u smoke, and never clear your own ashtray

I hate when you shower, and wet all over the floor of my wash room

I hate when you forgotten all the table manners that i've reminded you over and over again

I hate when you dont feel anxious when i m always not there for you

I hate when you dont kiss me good nite, and care more on your football

I hate when you dont sing me oldies anymore

I hate when you dont cuddle me at night

I hate when you dont call me and ask how am i

and most of all, I hate when you are still insisting that you are "OK" when i know you are not"

I hate... i really hate, when i have to go through this stage... just for the good of both of us...

melissasy

When Your Simplicity is Appreciated

I received an email on a poem wrote to me today....it feels wonderful to have some one appreciating and loving you at times.... however, in reality.... i m who i am bah...

"In her voice I hear sadness
though she tries to cover it so well
when I hear her laughter
my heart begins to swell

Pain has become an enemy
she battles it with pride
in our conversations
anguish, she tries to hide

She carries weight on her shoulders
enough to break the strongest soul
offering a helping hand to others
because her heart is made of gold

Her writing not complex
emotion weaves the lines
what lays within her heart
is what her poetry defines

Often offering words of comfort
expression sincere and true
a shoulder to cry upon
helping to pull you through

I don't need words complex
to express my love
she is an inspiration
and all the things above

Do I believe in angels ?
Yes I think God sent one to me
though she doesn't have wings nor a hallow
she is a beautiful soul I call ..."

EC.Copright Reserve

Some one who is not right might be perfect for another person.This is what i learn in every aspect of life. Before u put the passion, you must love it first.

Letoya-Torn

A part of me wants to leave you alone
A part of me wants for you to come home,
A part of me says i m living a lie,
And i m better off without you,
A part of me says to think it through
A part of me says i m over you,
A part of me wants to say good bye, a part of me is asking why....

A part of me want to leave but a part of me want to be here with you, and everytime i think we re over and done, you do something to let me back loving you, and you got me just torn.

So many times i was ready to go, so many times i had my foot out of the door; So many times i thought of giving him a chance just to think that he will be a better man, cause i keep fighting myself for you,you got me so torn.

Something is telling me i should leave you alone, or you will just keep me torned.......

Its a Breakthrough, instead of a Break Off...

After a year of distance relationship, finally we re back together again. Does it really really working out right? I have put my full effort of making it happened again, we have breathrough the first stage, now we re moving ahead to a harder stage.



Anyhow, i came across few books about answers to Questions like " I wonder Why?" Well, how do we define " attachment, detachment and desire" when we re in Love?



What is the difference between being attached to other people and loving them?

sometimes, when we said we re attached, we over estimate other people's qualities, thinking that they are better than they actualy are. However, we care about then just because they please us, they care, help, praise and even encourage us etc. What we ordinarily called LOVE is usually just attachment. With attachment, we do not see people for who they are or what they are, and thereby develop many expectation on them. When they do not live up to what we thought, we are hurt, or we disillusioned.

I am not sure how many cases of separation went through my ears, reading, saying is very much easy then really doing it ... sometimes, when u manage to went through a period of long time with your partner, i congrates you, its really a breakthrough....for life long relationship.

The Opening

I have not been writting my journal for couple of month. I use to update it monthly at http://www.melissasy.blog.friendster.com; due to my relocation from KK to KL, my new job interview process as well as my house hunting experience, i had a long list to do :), but its over, and now its the time to sit down, and start opening back my Jumanji game~


Well, lets talk bout my last christmas:~

Last christmas, i had 3 wonderful gift, Christmas has never been a big celebration for me, although i dont celebrate much ( just monginum in cousins place) , i enjoy exchanging gifts with precious one. It really shows the little appreciation and how much a person thought about you, it also shows who really take the effort for the relationship that you have. So, here is what i got :-






Anna Sui lip Golden matt lip Gloss ( pretty cool for clubbing )




Cerruti 1881 classy, water resistant watch.



And ... Versace Crystal Noire by Gianni Versace.





There are real wonderful gift as all match in one occasion... Woowwwuuuu..... however, knowing me, i will always keep them in my precious box, till god knows when... then forgotten that i have these precious gift.


Last christmas, i also gave mama & papa some cool staff... and they are loving it ! There birthday falls on the christmas eve, so i brought them to nice dinner at Tjg Aru, The mediterranean for a Cosy dinner. Papa Got a Camel cling bag to put all his gadget during travelling and mama got her Swatch Watch for Birthday. We had quality time together for a simple fine dinner.






The Mediterranean @ First Beach Tjg Aru. A must try when you come to KK.





So, December was actually a great month for me, not more on the christmas, but more on my decision for moving ahead, and live a life.... Its an outdated journal, but i can never forget, what i have gone thru :)


melissasy

KL~ Here i come

Hi, I m a purely Sabahan clane. I started this blog for a reason. My new job, new career, new life and new living environment, in this urban area... In this blog, i want to convey my life experienced message, my thought about happenings around to all readers, these goes especially to my Sabahan friends, as well as those who speaks the same tune with me. Be it beautiful story, shitty experience in KL as well as events which comes in a blue moon.

As you can read here, i m a direct and simple writter... the purpose of writting this journal is to keep track on the massive changes of this society and friends, please bombared me with your comments and thoughts, are you in line with me :)Ciao Sabahans~

by melissasy