Tuesday, June 09, 2009

You Rock Baby !

Baby with her "Best Of Breed" Ribbon Certificate.


Some what funny and relief, despite waited for so long at the back stage, finally both me and baby has got a chance to come out for a stroll. Baby was totally new to Show competition, all her agility and obedient trail wasnt useful here.. however.. she has the least hair, and shortest of them all.....


Dog Show is like a beauty contest, every dog shows their best groomed scene. Due to lacking of experience, we came with "Nothing", not even comb, not even a single grooming utensils. So we just sit aside and watch others busy with their grooming.....


Judge ( Mr Thomas Lim) gave Baby a body check, and then request us to strolled a round at ring 2.... then he handed a ribbon to me and Baby and whisper "Congratulations", i didnt prepare for anything.. however i m happy for baby that she won "Best Of Breed" for the show...


With that ribbon, we walk off the Doggie walk way, in exhaustion, hungry and happy mode... Lets go baby.. i know you would rather be a happy, simple, kampung dog with Spot Spot..


As we were home, Spot welcome us with the waggiest tail. Baby was so happy to meet her best friend... and immediately they roll on each other to play tug of war...


Good Baby.... you Rock! ....

Is somebody Out There?



I ve been searching... searching for a reason to live, and searching for a strenght to give...


I ve been hunting.... hunting for the best of myself, and make my prey a worth hunting one..


I ve been crying... and crying for the good reason, crying for happyness,and sadness...


I ve been howling, i howl for loneliness ... and to see if somebody out there can re-call


Friday, May 29, 2009

Birthday Night with Sis Juli






It was suppose to be a surprise dinner but news was broken by mom at noon..







However we still give her a surprise birthday cake., rich chocolate sponge cake that adds more layer on our waist...






Some funny pictures taken while waiting for our main course...



Prisc on the go.. after a hectic life in KL... back for chilll.....

"HAPPY BIRTHDAY JULI"

Monday, May 18, 2009

I have started a new post

Dear cousins and friends,

I have started a new post more spefically about canine obedient trainning and pet care...
drop by if you passion came in line with me
Injoyeeeee!

Ah Kong -Rest In Peace


My grandpa, the "The hunguan Siu" for Inanam Kiansom, an influencial businessman that came out with ideas and ideas over the years.... With his 85 years of strenght and determination to stay longer, Now, he chose to rest and be rest forever in a more comfortable zone together with my grandma Tutong Loijin...
Some Daisy flowers for Ah kong, namely from Tamparuli Hokkien Association, Harley Davidson Group ( sabah tuorism), Mr Emiliano and others....





A long list of Lim family tree for Ah kong..


Down: my father ascoting "Lao Ko"approaching to pay ah Kong a last visit...

The sorrow in them, and the sadness is hard to describe. They are Ah kong's sister...



This is the beauty of our family, even relatives with other religion came visited us without any barrier...


My last words to Ah kong:" Ah kong... life has been kind to all of us, for having you as our Lim's family leader and founder... together with Ah Ma you built a strong foundation and family tree and create legendary in all our hearts... on the 14 May 2009, you were called upon by God to join Ah ma in a better planet.... called Heavan... you have fight enough and you have pass on the battle accordingly... Ah kong.. you are forever the "HunguanSiu" in my heart..." Rest In Peace....

Sunday, April 05, 2009

The appearance of Man's Best Friend

I walk pass Foh Sang and Hilltop Housing while having a jog with Baby-The Pug early morning yesterday. As we were jogging along the housing main road, plenty of dogs were miggling around outside their house, perhaps owners let them out for some release...then suddenly 1 particular black dog( perhaps its a mix kampung retriever) ,with big paws and long deep muzzle came running towards us with a grin on his eyes a fierce look on Baby ( grrrr~ who on earth are you to step on our territory??), then it started to sniff around Baby...when he actually found out that we are not Harmful and just a passer by, he started to wiggle his tail and feeling to play with us... I thought dogs were naturally friendly with 20% human instact.. they are more then happy if you are able to calm them down and communicate through body language and simple words of command. Hence, i let Baby play with this (Blacky- i call it for a while)..

I suppose Baby wasnt the best well trained dog, however, due to the environment she grew up, in a trap small apartment and limited running space in KL, she was trained to understand her responsibilties, dos and dont and even be obedient i.e: less barking, potty correctly and~~ stop chewing shoes! i remember she chewed all my teddy bear in KL and even the biggest one she was trying to drag it down!....

Puppy/ or canine behavior trainning, is historically to be used for hunting , police force, fighting for protection and even leading the blinds. Nowadays, dogs had become mens best friends, womans companion and even, shows for children.... As we in Sabah having dogs arund the Taman or sometimes seeing carcass of dogs on the road are common scenario, this were infact a serious issue for metropolitan City like Kuala Lumpur, authories "put wild dogs to sleep" thats sounds cruel but yes it is true....


Basically to have a dog, they do need a basic obedient trainning.. not particularly to perform or anything but to listen to owners command and instructions... Some people naturally has a communication bond with their dogs, especially the watch dogs or the sporty type... that these group of dogs really do sacrifice for them... however vice versa, they are also behavioral problems dogs that barks non-stop at night, scartches al over their owners car, or even bite their owners, these group of dogs are mostly companion dog( in house) or Toy dogs ( manja Dog i mean) .Dog behavior trainning can make an enormous difference in our dogs life....

Have you watch the Movie Marly and Me by Jennifer and Owen Wilson?






Or Hotel For Dogs?

oh dear, these are the movies that really infuse dogs huminity to us especially to kids... Non muslim society like Japan, Taiwan, Needless to say europes... are treating dogs as FURKIDS...Perhaps for us is still unacceptable....however, when you are in situation that is so down or anger... they silently understand you and emphaty your feeling, just like any best friend does...


Ok OK enough of DOGS.... i am allocating 1 hour for Baby-The Pug Flyball trainning this sunday at my Taman basketball court... if you do need some behavioral trainning for your dog, let me try if i can help you out with this :).. free consultation, Chin do come by if you are in KK. I m sure your pug Blacky will be happy to meet Baby..




Cheers...for the weekend...






Tuesday, March 17, 2009

The Sabahan Doggie Fiesta~ grrrrrrrr


I really cant express how hilarious it was to see the Buffday party went on like Circus.. I will just list down my agenda for the Party... The rest~ Pictures speak a thousand words~

2:00-2:30 : Arrival of Invited Guest~ Pipi ( Mix poodle), Ling Ling ( Shit tzu), and Gin ( Toy Poodle)



2:30-3:00 : All invited guest getting some ice breaking session among dogs and also their masters; sniffing around in order to get use to the environment


3:00-3:30: Doggies agility game briefing and agility games conduct ( this picture seems like all dogs listening to the games rule of conduct )







Pipi & His agility game get going~





And here comes Ling Ling~ the Shit Tzu



3:30-4:00: Buffday song and cake cutting session, doggie eating time, and tea time for their little master too!





4:00-5:00: Price giving ceremony, photo shooting session and dog socialize session.










Special thanks to Wow Wow Pet Saloon for their gift and doggie sponsors, Yu Yu and Co for their




special assistance and Regina for her sharing of experience.



Ling Ling- The ShitTzu



Gin- The Toy Poodle

PiPi- The Poodle Mix


And Last But not Least ~


Baby- The Pug

Have A Pugalicious Day!










Friday, March 13, 2009

Buffday Cake ! Yummy~

ResearcH found out that Chicken Layer Sponge Cake is the easiest, so all set !




Ingrediant : baking powder, flour, dog stew/ bacon or any left over fresh meat, corn oil, eggs and butter




Bake in my little Phillip oven at 180D, for 1 hour... Aroma starts coming out... mmmm~ and Baby was excited bout it already..
"But not today pal".... hehehe



While i was busy cleaning up, someone also busy doing her own business... sniffing and on guard for right position to poo at her potty!


OK... success! Buffday Cake-Checked! Now move on to agility games " FUNtastic" planning ...

Keep you dog lovers update !

Monday, March 09, 2009

Its Her Buffday!


I suppose i am not a perfect Dog trainer, Groomer or owner..However after doing much research and experiencing blending my life with a PUG ( which is welly known as hyper, attention, and sometimes trouble maker breed) ... a year of her existence in my life has somewhat enlighten me in accepting her as part of my family member; I find when we really love and accept approve of ourselves exactly as we are, then everything in life works.....


So, in conjunction with Baby's 1st year birthday, i am throwing her a Birthday party and inviting some of her Close Doggie friends to come. I m excited to try the newly found Ham cake for the doggies, treats as well as some games for these little four legs furkid...To make it more fun, i will invite some dogs lovers as well... pet shop owners, groomers and also vet ...let see how it goes ..


Now this is my invitation card... Hopefully you can make it, Indy... :)



Saturday, February 28, 2009

BANG! She is Died!


Lately, Baby The Pug has been busy practising her Play Died Drama.

First ...

On Guard: Ready For the Command

Ears tug and eyes Alert

Second: Ready For Down Post, at side plank

Command : BANG!

She slide herself down one side ready for play dead..


Then, she stretch her body straight, four legs on surrender mode....

While doing this , her eyes eyeing on you to see if you are preparing her treats somewhere behind your fist.


Third move: Stay calm, flatten side plank on floor, waiting for treats... head on floor but eyes alert and nose started to sniff silently.
Command : STAY






Finally , Show the treats on your hand, give her a loud applause and say UP!..
Then tap on her... because of food, she is most welcome to do anything for you....
BABY wants to extend her gratitude on her success of this PLAY DEAD TRICK to :
Dr. Wee Kiong ( uncle whom has been motivating her)
Juliana & Priscilla Che che ( training her on hands on practical almost everyday)
" You Really Love Me"
Examiner : Melissa Mummy

































































Sunday, February 22, 2009

My View Of Financial Crisis -Global Market 2009

Bernard Madoff- Biggest Fraud in History






Anytime in this period, as we turn on BBC, CNN or even Blomberg, there is no surprise that, bankruptcy of Bank, individual or even house auction, financial con case in front of our screen. Subsequncy with the crisis and pulling out of major investors, Major con case like Bernard Mardoff has revealed day by day...The daily issue of market changing forum is more focusing on how to deal with the continuing crisis, rather then whats next to merge ahead.

The crisis win has yet to blow in asian countries, further more like us in Sabah. I would say we are still very much in honey moon stage, as the financial crisis somewhat is very much hit on the European, America as well as England. However, untouched territory like ours is in doubtful situation, no one know what is going to happen next, i met a fairly experience financial advisors lately, and asked about is his expectation for 2009... the only answer he can gave me is " It all depends" In conclusion, 2009 will be a pianful year, global recession, financial stresses, losses and of course eventually bankruptcy.

Upon my study and research, there is only light at the end of tunnel when:-

1) US: wether the stimulus packages works on the Government economy, injecting liquidity and stop the vicious cycle by boosting the economy.

2) EUROZONE : The economy crisis leaves the Eurozone shaken, with the single currency system, with the single currency system,Eurozone members trying to pull themselves out of the recession,most affected countries like, Greece, Italy,Belgium, Ireland, Portugal and Spain.

3) UK : The ability of UK to recover from the current depressed state.

4)Asia: We have yet to feel the real depressed state, however, since we are very much depending on the export economy, if the demand from europe is slumping, then this model will flop eventually. I.E : China's growth has cut to below 8% after 5 years of average gain of 16.5%; as usual Japan will deteriorate further from their current depression.

Stocks market, bonds, commodity are now at very stagnant level.. Eventually, the rich will become richer and the poor will become poorer.. further with the collapse of all currencies, inflation will happen and all goods prices go fly high...

For now, we should look into spending good money either for holiday, food or medical... Nothing is safe even in bank.. ( Even CITIBANK is at danger stage now), invest only when you are very sure. "


In the old days,man who saved money was a miser;nowadays he is a wonders....

Saturday, February 21, 2009

My side of Story About Bali- Indonesia.




Bali-Perhaps a common holiday or honeymoon destination for anyone around but this island has rather changed my life.. and relatively meant a lot to me.

Bali has made me fumble and fell in love again.This guy ... i ve met 2 years back, was my friend, my business partner, workmate and now i would say, the one i ador... Have it mentioned and you'll be surprise.. Yes.. he is Emi.. the one you know from KK, Sabah. ( i m sorry but i cant help to express this to share my joy with you with my simplest,direct sentence i can think of)

Before my journey, I pray to god to indicate me a direction or at least a hint on my decision to move on with this guy. And... without due deligence, he is a total sweetheart despite being a father of 3,a boss for 64 employees and once a responsible husband before.


In Bali, we stayed with a lovely old couple Richard & Vaile,whom are the second parents for him in Nusa Dua,Karang Putih. With much surprise, i was told we are going to spend a week with them and i was shock, feeling sligt inferior and nervous.. with butterfly in my stomach.I have to admit, he has been a naturally caring, gentleman and plan ahead .. Although i was having difficulty in catching up with the Australian slang of Richard and Vaile's conversation, i was actually impressed by his way of presenting me to them. Nonetheless, anyone would appreciate it for more.


Now here is our 4 days travelling scehdule, it was a tiry one but a total eye opener for me. The hinduism citizens of Bali are generally artisitic, friendly and well verse in english..


Day 1 : Riding on our Yamaha Neo Scooter and headed Downtown.. Uluwatu for the surfers zone,Denpasar and Jembarom for Seafood Bakar. Rush Back at 4pm, and prepare for dinner with Richard, Vaile and some guests.


Day 2 : 3 hours drive to Negara, North west of Bali- to view the man made Statue custom ordered by him.. and yes.. it was absolutely tiry ...

Day 3 : Another tiry day.. 2 hours drive to Kintamani ( the active volcano),Ubud ( the little craving town and sand stone craving),on the way back, we manage to stop by the monkey garden...


Day 4 : Statue hunting for mama.. manage to get a 1/4 m tall God of Mercy for mama, gorgeous and very well defined.

Finally, preparing to return to Sabah, via Jakarta.. and thats where i felt totally uneasy and started to get annoyed with the tears that kept droping from my eyes... its Conjunctivitist!

I know, feeling and falling in love is way too easy then building and maintaining a love. Mom is going to be very dissapointed as i chose a man whom is not her league. Dad will be happy as ever that finally her little girl is in love again. However, it is too hard to make everyone happy.. i always think that everyone deserve a second chance to be their best and fall in love again.




" People are often unreasonable,illogical and self-centered;forgive them anyway.If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; be kind anyway.

If you are succesful, you will win some false friends and some enemies;suceed anyway.

If you are honest and frank,people may cheat you;be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous;be happy anyway.

The good you do today,people will often forget tomorrow;Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;give the world the best you've

got anyway."Kent .M


The final analysis, is still between us and God... only when we are tested that we discover who we can be. The other side of the world still exist... with hardwork, faith and belief, and beyond heartache and fear of what lies ahead...
with that, i wish everyone had a sweet valentine day, be it with you family, friends and even love ones...

Tuesday, February 03, 2009

Marriage- A turning point in Life




Despite busy celebrating Chinese New Year, there were double happines happening in my family. The new born Baby Zander, little nephew of mine, and newly wedded couple, Aaron and Bernedette. Both from my Papa side cousins and Yes... there are purely Kadazan - kakadazans.


Baby Zander Avantang was born smilling on the 30 December 2008 and we had a full moon for this handsome baby on the 29 Jan 2009... his mommy Charmaine, was healthyly strong and i got Zander a Cloth Diaper from Miabambina.com for his full moon present.



For the first time, i am able to attend a typical culturistic kadazan tradition wedding,fully procedured and protocol..:) ( left out the ISO 1900 standard procedure only) .. The wedding took 3 days to complete, from SOGIT, church Wedding Mass to MAGAGUNG in POGUN... i remember my last cousin wedding, all of us ( the lim clan cousins) were running around like chicken to meant the fault and chores to make our cousin's wedding ( Wawa) a succesful one, however, in this Wedding ( Aaron & Benerdette) i have to put my hand together , give a loud applause to my che che ( Cindy M) on her well monitoring in organizing this mega event.



The most fascinating day of the whole chain of wedding ceremony was on the MAGAGUNG ceremony. I dont quite understand what actually the ritual and practise was about however i am pretty fascinated by the procedure of these newly wedded couple went through.


First both have to step on this stone, which was located at the main entrance of their house.






Secondly, a cross over of "Kadazan Hat" for both the newly wed, i really have no idea the meaning of this exercise however, i saw Moing ( nenek) was murmuring for the Gods blessing for this married couple. Once the couple stepped in,there were few protocol to be done, perhaps this is to more like the "tea ceremony" from the chinese culture, its is more like receiving blessing from the elderly ones.

So instead of serving tea, they served Tapai/Lihing, They served and drink , sip by sip, and bit by bit, and eventually..... they danced.... to represent the symbol of celebration for the newly wedded couple. So, celebration go on and on, with the company of rythmic gong and food... Tapai was served around...


Marriage, the pinnacle everyone's life, gives a sense of belonging and security to an individual... Deep down my heart, i wish.. this newly wedded couple, longevity, and love forever....


Congrats Aaron & Bern
















Saturday, January 31, 2009

The Flying Lion- Furiously welcoming the Ox Year

The Lion Dance during Chinese New Year has its very meaningful history and legendary. Last nite, i had a chance to view a fantastic performance of 18 Lions parading in front of Capital Hotel, approaching the public, and patron at Little Italy. Yes.. it is once a year, grand opening of Bless for the restaurant i suppose.. Perhaps its the tradision for the restaurant.

During the ancient days,Lion dance was originally helps the protect the attack of monster which came from the sky once a year to kidnap the children and woman. When the powerful drum starts, all lions on stand by to prevent the in coming monster any time around the spring season every year. This legendary perhaps sounds like a Chinese MITOS however, it is always in every childs heart especially those from the chinese primary school.

These days, Lion dance means wooing the "Bad Qi" away and welcoming the joy of Spring New year. I am amaze by the 2 kids performaing 30ft above me, .... somewhat dissppointed though, this gracious performance in fact are not done by Chinese, they are the local boys that really has the gut, and brave heart.....

Sunday, January 25, 2009

大年初一 躬奉祖先





First day of cny is usually a family day. Visiting our ancestor or we called MOYANG and will declare as vegetarian day. Pic above is my old house in telipok mile 16, kpg Giling. This house is made of Nyatuh wood with berlian piller, it is almost 60 years old from now..


While waiting for the granchildren to finish praying for thier Gong ma.. Opps.. some one is surveying the house with her sence & sensibility... She enjoyed being muddy and dirty, sniffing around with her flat nozzle... and funny thing she scared Lupo away ( the big dog whom is the master in the doggie comunity here)



Saturday, January 17, 2009

A short Period With Little Italy Family



I always fond of running a deli/cafe.People always tell me food & Beverages is the toughest due to its long operating hour, man power requirement, trust and cost of raw meterial. Dreaming about it is always only a cloud, i always thought its good if i give myself a try to learn from ground. Hence, i called up Little Italy (The most croweded Italian Restuarant in Town) if i can work part time since its festive season.







Why i choose this restaurant, Little Italy ( Pasta & Pizza corner).



For Your information, this is the pioneer restaurant in town ( i mean Kota Kinabalu) that runs by an Italian Family. You can find the restaurant name in Lonely Planet as well. It is located at Ground Floor, Capital Hotel and serves the fastest Italian food in town. Perche?.. because they re the only restuarant the use the palm held order system ( like The Apartment, and Italianies remember folks?), Bagpackers, travellers around the world, locals, VIPs, VVIPs, always would love to come in their simple attire with family and has a great dinner gathering here. You can always see the restaurant owner have their meals here, they are down to earth, friendly and most of all, treat their staff like family.






My first day work


I was kinda stress out, blank, blur, nervous and even lost... I was the food runner, because its the fastest way to remember the menu. So my job is to ensure i deliver the right food to the right customers and mentioned the right name to them. Nothing comes easy, all base on experience, by the time u remember table number, you forgot the name of the lamb chop, of scalopine, or zuppa.. by the time u remember, the other table is already calling you to attend to them. Great, its a challenge... not big though...






Working on a Chirstmas Day


Working on the day you suppose to gather with your family is pretty petahtic. Especially when you see family members coming in big group to enjoy a joyous family gathering with good food , cheers and laughter.....i thought about my family too..and i started to learn "the art of family Gathering" hahaha~ so if you have problem with you parents, a great food dinner can solve the communication breakdown with them :) However, i notice all staffs here are like a big family too, they are tired, busy but happy.






Most unforgetable Customers Behavior


Well, every customers have their own way of treating a new staff like me, espeically to regular who feels that, they know it all in the menu. I met some nice and friendly customers, vice versa, i also met some snobbish patron that giving me and my collegue hard time. However, customers are always right, even they ordered the wrong food,we change for them, at our own cost... Usually, young guest ...are the snobbish one... can someone tell me y?:)







Most Enjoyable Job Scope


My most enjoyable job scope is when i get to stand behind the bar and do the washing. This is because i have an eagle eye view overall the restaurant. I can hear laughter, watch couple dating, and even chatters around me. Also i always keep on eyes on calling customers so we wont neglected their orders or attend to them immediately.







Most Funny Moment


Yes, i have this most funny moment, i met a friend of my uncle with his family, since i was with my bandanah, he couldnt recognize me, and i whisper to him... " hey you", he thought i was trying to court him and he wouldnt dare to turn over.... and then , right after his dinner with his family, i walk to his table and call his name again... he was SHOCK and hit my hand... and he laugh over my uniform, i feel good to make them happy.








Most Appreciative Moment


You know, the best thing about working here is that, once you made a blunder,the seniors will come and back you up.. this i have to admit, the seniors or pioneers or so call the managers a superb, they assist me , help me, guide me and even letting me relax so i dont look nervous in the restaurant... I would really appreciate them... especially the Botak... you know who ;)