Its a Breakthrough, instead of a Break Off...

After a year of distance relationship, finally we re back together again. Does it really really working out right? I have put my full effort of making it happened again, we have breathrough the first stage, now we re moving ahead to a harder stage.



Anyhow, i came across few books about answers to Questions like " I wonder Why?" Well, how do we define " attachment, detachment and desire" when we re in Love?



What is the difference between being attached to other people and loving them?

sometimes, when we said we re attached, we over estimate other people's qualities, thinking that they are better than they actualy are. However, we care about then just because they please us, they care, help, praise and even encourage us etc. What we ordinarily called LOVE is usually just attachment. With attachment, we do not see people for who they are or what they are, and thereby develop many expectation on them. When they do not live up to what we thought, we are hurt, or we disillusioned.

I am not sure how many cases of separation went through my ears, reading, saying is very much easy then really doing it ... sometimes, when u manage to went through a period of long time with your partner, i congrates you, its really a breakthrough....for life long relationship.