This month Issue~ Emotional Intelligence

Time past so fast, another month gone with the wind.... its the first quarter of the year.. what have i achieved, and what have i accomplished...? sometimes i just wonder... Did i made the right move to come back to KL... however, time will tell and spizzica outcome will tell the truth...

This month was a crucial and hollow month, i had plenty of arguments especially with the person i love, things just doesnt go along with my expectation, did i expect too much from him ? or he is just too emotional insensitive... I lost my temper few times, throw my tantrum like a toddler, and even cried like a baby... some how or rather, i made him feel painful but still... he is wondering why...

i think, Emotional Intelligence is really running out in most of the guys nowadays ( especially , the malaysian guys.....) That makes most of the woman feel like a CD repeating as everything needs to be told again and again and yet it is ignored by the him.Sometimes, after being with you for more then a year, they started to cruise on the flat emotion that where there is no need to communicate or even think he needs to improve his love life/career/ fitness level etc. So when woman try to puor their heart out trying to be nice and expect to be loved in return they turn out to be a died lizard lying on the road.

EI- generally is an important radar that use to read people,connect quickly and asses whats really going on/ whats needed. In specific explanation, EI is all about understand why we feel and behave the way we do so that we can recognize and respond to the feelings when they arise. EI is use to develop greater self awareness and self control in our relationships with others.

Its is really hard to find a man who is high in their Emotional Intelligence, when they can acknowledge, notice and adress your feelings promptly, they will show their empathy, love and support and even intuit what they can do to have a strong , intimate and meaningful relationship in all walks of life with you.

I somehow think... its way too far to find a man who is emotionaly sensitive enough, unless the are season and experience man ( you know what i mean ;) ) or they are just temporary excited to be fetish in love...

Its late , i m going to rest now... nice dinner with my thai housemate whom is leaving soon back to Bangkok.